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Five ways women can say no to ‘office housework’

A new book ‘The No Club: Putting a Stop to Women's Dead-End Work’ argues that ‘non-promotable work’ (the kind that is important to not only a team that works well together but a bonded one) is unlikely to ever be rewarded or recognised. It is seen as an invisible hurdle to gender equality in the workplace, with women’s time and energy being disproportionately expended on thankless tasks. For more information check out this guardian article or better still, get the book!

As a bite size summary, here are five ways you can say no to office housework:

1. Your time is more valuable elsewhere (you know, doing actual work)

Sometimes it is hard to say no, we get that. But sometimes you have to remember that you do have actual work to do that is more significant than organising the annual Christmas lunch.  As if trying to prize a £10 deposit out of people’s hands so that you can all enjoy the 3rd turkey dinner of the week doesn’t take up enough of your time already. There is the circulation of the menu so you can pre-order because you only get an hour for lunch and you have SO MUCH TO GET THROUGH because of the time it’s taken to organise the lunch that you daren’t go a minute over. Yes, everyone has had a nice time but it's you that has to stay an hour later at work to meet the other deadlines because of your actual work.

2. It isn’t part of your job description

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I know that for some, organising leaving gifts and a new baby bouquet of flowers is in their job description (after all someone has to do it). If it isn’t, then make sure you say no to those tasks with plenty of evidence to back it up. Have a list of all the money making or value adding projects that you have on at the moment, and be clear and concise that these parts of your work take a lot more priority because they are part of your job description. These parts are often the critical elements that will support your ambitions for career progression. I mean, when have you ever sat in a job interview for a bigger role and been able to say ‘I sorted Geoff’s retirement present a treat and I nailed Sheila’s ‘emigrating to Australia party’ as the main reasons you should be a ‘Head of’ with the accompanying 15k hike in salary? Ask yourself this question…does John at the next desk have as much on as you? Then suggest him as an alternative. Your time is just as valuable as his and you can always do the next one.

3. Suggest a rota

As we mentioned just now at number two, you don't necessarily have to say no but you can ‘defer’ or suggest a rota. A rota is a great way to ensure that those office admin tasks (also known as office housework!) are spread out evenly across everyone, rather than one person taking it all on (i.e. it always being you!). You can probably bet that once others get a taste of the organising lifestyle they will appreciate your efforts a whole lot more … who knows, they might even say thank you when it's your turn!

4. Be straightforward and honest

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We are all guilty of sugar coating things … sometimes because you feel uncomfortable at expressing the real reason behind your answer, or you don’t want to make anyone else feel uncomfortable. If you feel that you are being singled out for the task because you are a woman, then you should say so. Challenging stereotypes is the first step towards gender equality in the workplace. Often people won’t know they are doing it and will respect your challenge (as long as you do it respectfully of course!). You should never feel guilty of being honest if you feel that in a room full of men, you are the only one who has been asked to take minutes of a meeting.

5. Don’t say sorry

I mean, of course say it if you have something to apologise for but are you really sorry that you have too much on your plate and you don’t have the time to organise the retirement gift for Barbara whom you have never even met? Didn’t think so. Of course don’t just say ‘no’ - that would be rude - but embed all of the tips that we have mentioned above and you will never be stuck with the office housework again! (Well unless it is actually your job … you can't really say no I am afraid!)

Of course, sometimes the need for office admin does still arise and there’s no avoiding it, so read on for how you can ensure it doesn’t have an adverse effect on your productivity, perception and mental health!

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